No one likes to contemplate drug use in schools, particularly in elementary and middle grades. So no one really likes to be reminded about it. That’s a natural reaction for most parents and many students. But recent statistics indicate that drug use among middle school students is on the rise and that more are actually using drugs or alcohol in school.
That’s why we take advantage of drug awareness week to remind students and families of the pervasive use of drugs and alcohol by young people, sometimes starting as early as 10 or 11 years of age. Responsible schools are realistic and proactive. They partner with parents to provide the constant education and reinforcement of good decisions that young children require in order to affect behavior.
Middle school is a time when confusion about one’s identity can increase experimentation. Kids at this age are developmentally less able to anticipate consequences or think long-term. They become more susceptible to peer pressure and social media. Social media, in particular, gives students the impression that everyone is partying.
Often parents think about illegal hard drugs and assume that their child does not have access. But much middle school abuse involves such substances as alcohol, cough medicine and prescription medications that can be accessed in homes, and for “free.”
Parents also assume that drug use is a problem for “troubled teens.” They suffer from not-my-good-kid syndrome. But drug use in affluent communities and private schools has exploded. Parents must remember that good kids often make bad choices. They also should realize that the drug culture of today differs markedly from the drug culture of previous generations.
Parents must educate themselves about current trends, monitor social media, ask questions, LISTEN, and be observant. Studies continue to indicate that parents who regularly raise the issue of drugs and alcohol and actively discourage abuse, have a significant influence on their child’s choices.
The best parenting you can do, when it comes to drug and alcohol abuse, is to expect and prepare for the worst. Then when it doesn’t happen, celebrate!
